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Best telephoto lens for the nikon d3500?

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From Nikon D3500: Nikon D3500: A DSLR by Nikon with a 24.2-megapixel APS-C sensor, announced in 2018. Nikon's last entry DSLR: small, simple and long on battery life. Specs - Maker: Nikon - Mount: Nikon F - Sensor: APS-C, 23.5 x 15.6mm, crop factor 1.5 - Resolution: 24.2 megapixels - Stabilisation: none in the body; use stabilised lenses for slow shutter speeds - Announced: 2018 - Type: DSLR Focal lengths on it Lenses frame like ...

From Sensor sizes: What it costs you: - Size, weight and price, especially of the lenses. A full-frame telephoto is much larger than its APS-C or Micro Four Thirds equivalent. - Less depth of field when you want more of it, for macro or landscape.

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